Please note: this seminar is held in German, and the book is written in German. Reading knowledge of German is required.
Sound familiar?
There is this one conversation that always goes the same way. You know in advance how it will end - and it ends that way again anyway.
You sometimes notice how you could explode - or do - at the way certain people around you behave. In at least one relationship you keep feeling frustrated or powerless, and after conversations you think: I should have … Or: Next time I will …
And next time, it is faster than you again.
This is not because you don't know better. Most people know quite precisely how they want to react in difficult conversations: calm, clear, connected. The problem is not the knowing - in the decisive moment an automatism is faster, the old reflex of anger, withdrawal or justification.
Automatisms don't change through insight. They change through practice. That is why this seminar is not a lecture and not a weekend firework, but nine weeks.
New to The Serenity System? The home page explains what it is about.
What is different after the nine weeks
- You notice the moment something rises in you - before you react. Between stimulus and response a gap opens, and in that gap you can choose.
- You have practised concretely for your most difficult relationship - the one you are thinking of right now. Not on textbook examples, but on your own real conversations of each past week.
- You can say what bothers you without it landing as an attack - and you hear what is behind other people's reproaches without taking them personally.
- Arguments become rarer, shorter, and more often lead somewhere. Not because you give in - but because you no longer play along when the old game begins.
Why a book launch seminar?
On 20 September you receive the first chapter of the book "The Serenity System" by email - the shared starting signal for the group.
The book has just been released. Those taking part read it in the group's rhythm - chapter by chapter, one per week - and put it into practice together with the group. Because reading a book and applying a book are two different things.
This seminar is the first round accompanying the book - the group with which the book learns to walk. An honest deal: you get the full course, the book gets your experience and your honest feedback.
Trainer: Tim Schlüter, former TV presenter, entrepreneur and founder of The Serenity System. More about his story.
How it runs
One chapter per week. On Sunday evenings we meet for 90 minutes on Zoom - with a break in the middle - and work with it.
On Sunday 20 September you receive the first chapter. A week to read it. On Sunday 27 September we have the first call together - and then every Sunday for nine weeks.
Every evening follows the same shape: your questions about the chapter, then exercises in the full group and - depending on size - in pairs or threes. That turns what you have read into something you can actually do.
The real lever, though, is not in the Sundays but in between: between the sessions there is everyday life. That is where the real conversations happen - the ones that go well and the ones that go wrong. Exactly those you bring along the next Sunday. A weekend seminar creates enthusiasm that fizzles out by Wednesday. Nine weeks create a habit.
Online, effective, unique
This seminar is special because it is the only book launch seminar.
It is also very effective, because the group is deliberately kept small: only six participants plus trainer are admitted. That way everyone can be addressed individually.
And if you cannot make it once? You still read the chapter and receive a short summary of the call afterwards.
Join from anywhere. Cameras on, small circle - no substitute for a room, but it creates commitment.
Six participants plus trainer. Everyone gets their turn, in every session.
We read the book together with the author - and put it into practice week by week.
With the help of The Serenity System, a wonderful baseline calm has moved into my everyday life. Instead of first getting worked up about things, as I used to, I now have a far wider repertoire of responses available - one that leads to solutions much more easily. Some potential conflicts defuse themselves immediately through this different approach.
Even in a situation that had cost me sleepless nights, the system helped me find a way forward that I had not seen on my own. I find the system, and the way it is taught, deeply enriching and fruitful.
Steffen Grützki, VideoRhetorik / SGONMA UG, Munich
Who it is for
Newcomers
You have never heard of The Serenity System. There is currently no better way in: the book and the guidance at the same time, in a small group.
Returning
You know the system from an earlier training or coaching - and want to refresh it and bring it back into your everyday life. Here you have the support of the whole group.
Going deeper
You have read already and want to go further. In the seminar you practise what merely made sense while reading - with exercises and examples you may not know yet.
What is included
- Nine Serenity Calls, Sunday evenings, live and online
- Nine anonymised summaries of the calls to read back over
- The book in digital form - as a PDF and online version
- A group of no more than six people
The price for the next round is not fixed yet. The waiting list hears it first.
20.09.2026
first chapter by email
27.09.2026
then every Sunday
Fully booked
six people on Zoom, cameras on
Taking part
This round is fully booked. You can put your name on the waiting list and will be the first to hear when the next round is set. The list is on the German page - the seminar itself is held in German.
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